Blogiversary
May 04 2010 Yesterday was my 1 year blogiversary. 207 entries written thus far. I honestly never envisioned enduring for very long when I began this site on a whim last year. I just wanted something strictly for myself again, that I could maybe pass a few minutes with, along with some stress. It’s grown to be that and so much more.
Things I have learned this year in the blogosphere:
1. People like drama. No, really. Some people REALLY like drama. They feed off of it, poised at their keyboards for the next outrage. Which is alright, I guess, but it’s not me. I’m a lot more laid-back than I ever realized before.
2. There may be unforeseen rewards to starting a blog where the main focus is the crazy days as a mother, such as becoming a much more attentive parent. I notice things now that I wouldn’t have given a second thought to before. In fact, every day is blog fodder waiting to happen. Material can be found in the most obscure places, the best stories to tell sneak up on you when you least expect it.
3. It’s disturbing what some people search for on Google.
4. You will get jealous. You will be envious. You will wonder how that person has as many readers as they do and you don’t. You will wonder why you’re never on any “best of” lists. You will wonder if you’re doing it wrong. You will wonder if you’re not sharing enough. You will wonder if you’re sharing too much. You will wonder if it’s worth it. You will get mad and crazy and sad at your computer screen. It’s OK. It’s normal. You will breathe and hopefully it will pass.
5. You will appreciate and love those who stop by to read what you have to say, especially those who cheer you on or lend their support and comment. Thank you for making the past year so very worth it.
13 Responses
on May 04 2010
Congratulations! One year is huge. Here’s to another!
on May 04 2010
Congrats! And this is very well said. It’s so amazing but scary and strange at the same time. The drama, the jealousy… I am so glad I stumbled upon your space here many months ago. It’s been amazing to hear some of your mom experiences.
Best,
Tina
on May 04 2010
Don’t you just LOVE the internet?! I love your voice. And yes, here’s to another!
.-= maggie´s latest blog post: Preschool and, uh, bread. Yeah, this one’s a winner. =-.
on May 04 2010
“Every day is blog fodder waiting to happen.” Yes! Happy, Happy Blogiversary!! I’m looking forward to your next 207 posts. =>
.-= Stacia´s latest blog post: Splitting Heirs =-.
on May 04 2010
Yes yes yes yes and yes to each of those
Congrats on 1 year! Even though you’ve been around these here internets for yeeeearrrss!!
on May 04 2010
HAPPY BLOGIVERSARY!!! YAY!!
And my favorite google search to find my blog: alex is poo
Awesome.
.-= Alex @ LateEnough´s latest blog post: As Of Now, We Are Only Prepared For The Slow Moving Zombies =-.
on May 04 2010
Happy Blogiversary!
I couldn’t agree more with you, especially 1, 3 and 4. Some people are just gross…some people need a therapist and not Twitter, and some people will always have a bigger, better blog than I do. It’s ok – there’s room for us all!
.-= LZ´s latest blog post: I didn’t almost forget my daughter at the playground. Not even close. =-.
on May 04 2010
A year is amazing! And I love what you’ve written. I’m taking it to heart, being new to the blog world.
.-= Kate´s latest blog post: just a couple of little moments… =-.
on May 04 2010
Happy! One year.
The drama makes me roll my eyes – glad you don’t participate either.
.-= Angella´s latest blog post: The Kids Are Alright =-.
on May 04 2010
Congratulations! I started blogging for myself and it has turned into something else entirely. Something better. Steer clear of the drama (which includes those darn “best” lists) and keep enjoying your little place on the Web.
.-= Momo Fali´s latest blog post: Random Realizations V =-.
on May 04 2010
C – Happy blogiversary! I love the honesty of this post. And you are so right, blogging has made me more mindful of my parenting, and I do wonder where the heck are all these readers some days. But when they do land on my post and take the time to read and comment, I am ever so grateful. As I am to you for taking the time with mine.
Congrats again on your first year and I look forward to reading more
on May 05 2010
Happy One Year!! WOOT!
I have to agree with all of your points.
Totally agree with #3! People are icky.
.-= Marilyn (A Lot of Loves)´s latest blog post: California Dreaming: Wednesday of Few Words =-.
on May 09 2010
I just recently stumbled on your blog and have really enjoyed reading. So much of it reminds me of life with my boys — I’ve got three ages 5 and under. I’ve added your to my blogroll so I remember to come back often!
.-= Sarah´s latest blog post: Thank you, moms =-.