Two for Tea

We had a tea party. I’m sorry you weren’t invited, it was a simple affair. A table set for two, mother and daughter. A few minutes of the morning, a small moment in time. No boys allowed even, though it didn’t stop them from trying to intervene.

I’m afraid I forgot to dress up for the occasion. I’ll try to remember to wear my pearls next time. Abby adorned in striped pink pants and blue Flower Power shirt. Dainty ceramic teacups, her Fisher-Price musical teapot. A vessel in my lap with hers clinging against the table. Pinky extended.

She’d fill my cup then walk to hers. Pour. Again and again, I’d pretend to slurp the best tea I’ve ever tasted. If I believe it’s real, and she believes it’s real, then it must be.

“Mmmm… that’s good!”, I exclaimed.

“Some more?”, she asked in a knowing tone, my daughter’s vocabulary expanding every day. What she can say, what she understands.

“Oh, yes please!”, I declared.

Motioning to the pink play teapot, Jedi nudged his way through to ask, “Are you really drinking anything?”

It all depends on what you choose to believe. Love, air, happiness, forgiveness, imagination, even the most delicious tea for two. Some matters might seem mythical, but you don’t have to taste it to know what’s real.



12 Responses

  1. 1

    Sweet. It’s the simple things that will matter the most in the long run. Love a good tea party.

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    The Amber says:

    I believe! I believe!
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    jesser says:

    What a sweet memory!! :)

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    Amber says:

    Sweet, I love having tea parties with my daughter.
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  5. 5

    One of my favorite things to do.
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    Mrs.Mayhem says:

    What a special moment. One of the small experiences that build a sense of well-being within our children.
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    Kate says:

    Wonderfully told! And who knows, you probably were wearing your very best gown with a diamond tiara.
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    From: C. (Kid Things)
    on August 21st, 2010

    @Kate, If by very best gown you mean I was still in my pajamas, then yes.

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    Kelly says:

    Such a sweet moment. I love tea parties with my girl, though she often threatens to get the wolf after me when I’m not effusive enough about how great the tea is. She’s also a pro at serving plastic tacos and eggs. It’s an art, you know.
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    From: C. (Kid Things)
    on August 23rd, 2010

    @Kelly, Plastic tacos and eggs? Is that like green eggs and ham?

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    I love this, what a sweet moment! You really painted a picture here with your words. It’s so incredible how this imaginative play starts to blossom in young children. Last night Shane scavenged an empty pasta box out of the recycle bin and “cooked” me a big pot of pasta…I got a kick out of him trying to feed me imaginary pasta straight from his little pot. There’s something so truly nurturing and satisfying about sharing an imaginary meal with your child!
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    Rudri Patel says:

    Sounds a like a perfect tea party to me!
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